Judgement vs. Discernment
I have long been known to be a highly intuitive individual. Since I was a child I could sense things and underlying motives like no one else I knew. It was awesomely terrible in a cool kind of way. If I was not raised in a Christian tradition one might even say that I was “psychic” or “empathic” for your trekkies out there. It is a wonderful gift to have, if you use it right. However, in my 33 trips around the sun I have used it very poorly at times.
“9And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, 11filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.” Phillipians 1: 9-11
The word discern appears in the NIV version of Proverbs at least 13 times. Most often it has to do with wisdom and character formation. Paul in the above mentioned passage says that discernment is an outworking of love and that you abound more in love by getting knowledge and depth of insight. Discernment however can turn into an ugly problem, the problem of Judgment. I believe discernment when applied has a few key characteristics that set it apart.
1) Discernment is a spiritual activity. When we are regularly praying, seeking God and living a communal life with those around us (i.e. the church) discernment will be stronger and more focused.
2) Discernment works for the greater good of the community. Discernment, since it is an outworking of love will always be used for the good of others and ultimately for yourself.
3) Discernment needs to be worked out in community. We are communal people. All wisdom, knowledge and discernment rightly applied needs to be filtered through those who have wisdom. A community that is properly functioning will have those within its leadership who have the maturity and strength to pour themselves into the situation. Elders and leadership need to be free of their own agenda and willing and able to see the ideas and the underlying motives.
Discernment outside of community and the use of wisdom is dangerous. I have been in situations where God has given me a word or a feeling about an individual or situation and it is an odd place to be. I immediately snap to a decision and it then peppers my decision making for the rest of that interaction, or my relationship with that person. Often times my judgment of the situation is correct, but my response to it is wrong. Sometimes I am just a (insert your own colorful adjective here) and I am completely wrong about the situation.
What I am learning, again and again, is that we are communal people. Everything you and I do is in the context of community. Either a church, an employer, a neighborhood, we all operate in a community. God has instituted His church to bring Him glory and to give us a place to be encouraged, exhorted, taught and refined for living a life to the glory of God. Remember what Paul said in the above scripture, ultimately what we are doing is for the “glory and praise of God.” The community of believers called the church is to be that place where we work out or gifts and use them for the greater good of our community and to reflect the love God has for them.
No one wants to be a (insert adjective here) and the community of believers is the place to grow and learn in a safe and loving environment.
~Selah~

